my life with an undiagnosed covert narcissist
A memoir about loving someone who rewrote your reality — and the long, quiet work of writing it back in your own hand.
One email when it's out. Nothing else, ever.
You're on the list. I'll write when it's time. — Haylie.
The version of events that never quite matched what you remembered. The apology that somehow became your fault. The friends who slowly, politely, stopped believing you.
This is the story of a relationship built on that quiet erosion — told from the inside, in real time, before it had a name. It's not a clinical breakdown of narcissistic abuse. It's a diary. Messy, specific, and true, from the first small lie to the moment the whole story finally made sense.
If you've ever been told you're too sensitive, too much, or simply wrong about your own life — this book was written for you.
I wasn't losing my mind. I was losing my mind to him — one small, reasonable-sounding correction at a time.
No release date yet — but you'll hear it from me before anyone else.
One email when it's out. Nothing else, ever.
You're on the list. I'll write when it's time. — Haylie.